8 Nigerian Sex Myths That Need to Die This Year

Sex myths are everywhere.

We have all heard some wild things about sex, whether it has been passed down from elders, whispered between friends, or dropped casually into conversation by someone who swears they know what they are talking about.

And sometimes these myths sound so believable that people accept them without questioning.

But misinformation can be harmful. It leads to bad decisions, poor sexual health, and unnecessary stress.

It is 2025, so why are we still arguing about whether salt water can prevent pregnancy? Let us break down eight common sex myths in Nigeria.

Myth 1: “If you pee after sex, you will not get pregnant.”

Your body does not work like that.

Somewhere along the way, this myth convinced people that urinating will magically flush out sperm before it causes pregnancy. But here is the truth:

• Urine comes from your bladder and then through your urinary tract, not your reproductive system.
• Sperm does not go through your urinary tract, so peeing does not stop fertilization.

What peeing helps with is preventing urinary tract infections (UTIs), which is why it is good practice to pee after sex.

But if the goal is pregnancy prevention, the only real solutions are:
– Contraception (condoms, birth control pills, emergency contraception, IUDs)
– Not having sex at all (if you are avoiding risk altogether)

Stop trusting bathroom breaks. Use protection instead.

Myth 2: “You cannot get an STI from oral sex.”

If you think STIs only happen through vaginal or anal sex, you would have to think again.

Oral sex can transmit infections like:

• Herpes (cold sores can spread to the genitals)
• Gonorrhea (yes, you can get it in your throat)
• HPV (linked to throat cancer)

Many people assume “no penetration equals no risks,” but STIs don’t follow that logic. Any skin contact, bodily fluids, or infected areas can spread infections.

How can you stay safe from infections?
– Get tested regularly and ensure that your partner is tested as well, because STIs can exist without symptoms.

If you thought oral sex was “safe by default,” now you know better.

Myth 3: “Only women who sleep around get tested for STIs.”

This stigma needs to disappear immediately.

Getting tested for STIs is not about promiscuity; it is about taking responsibility.
STIs don’t care about you or your partner’s:
– Gender (they affect men and women equally)
– Relationship status (doesn’t matter whether you are single, married, or dating)
– Body count (you can catch an STI from one person, not just multiple partners)

STI testing should be as normal as visiting the doctor for a regular health check-up.

More people getting tested = fewer infections spreading. Testing should be normalized.

Myth 4: “You cannot get pregnant the first time you have sex.”

Let us cancel this sex myth forever:

Pregnancy can happen any time sperm meets an egg, whether it is your first time or your hundredth.

The idea that first-time sex magically protects against pregnancy is a lie.

No protection? The risk is there.

Use contraception every time. Biology does not care if it is your first try.

Myth 5: “Washing with Dettol or salt after sex prevents infections or pregnancy.”

This sex myth has led to way too many bad experiences.

The belief that antiseptics, salt water, or douching can “wash away” sperm or infections is not only false, it is also very harmful.

Using harsh products internally disrupts vaginal pH balance, leading to:
– Irritation and discomfort
– Higher risk of infections (bacterial vaginosis, yeast infections)

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– Damage to vaginal tissue

To prevent pregnancy and STIs, stick to condoms, birth control, and safe sex practices.

Dettol is for wounds, not your reproductive system. Please.

Myth 6: “If someone looks clean, they are STI-free.”

STIs don’t have visible warning signs. Some can exist in the body for months or years without symptoms.

Someone can look fresh, smell great, feel healthy, yet still carry an STI.

The only way to know for sure is regular testing. With the 3H-Viralcheck Test Kit, you can test for multiple STIs right from the comfort and privacy of your home. You can place an order for the test kit here.

Don’t assume safety just because someone “looks clean.” Health is more than appearances.

Myth 7: “Using a condom kills the vibe.”

Over time, this has been the most common excuse for skipping protection.

But here is the truth:
– The right condom actually enhances pleasure (try thinner, textured options)
– Lubrication makes condoms feel better
– Proper sizing prevents discomfort

Protection should always come first, and finding the right condom can make sex better, not worse.

Instead of skipping condoms, find the one that works for you.

Myth 8: “If it feels good, it means it’s safe.”

Pleasure is not a safety guarantee.

Some STIs don’t cause immediate symptoms.
Some partners are not emotionally safe despite feeling good in the moment.
Some situations seem harmless but carry risks.

Smart sex decisions are based on education, protection, and emotional readiness, asides pleasure.

Don’t assume “good” means “safe”. Be intentional.

Conclusion

Sex myths might sometimes sound funny, but they cause real harm.

The best way forward is getting proper education, having open conversations, and making informed choices.

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Let us leave the myths in the past and move toward better sexual health for everyone.